We often grow up with various life experiences from others, which causes us to either build resilience or resentment, which we carry into relationships (whether it be family, friends, work colleagues, partners etc.) Believe it or not parents sometimes play a part in this (most times innocent) as it is very easy to overlook childhood emotions due to external judgement.

What I mean by this is... often as parents we see our children as 'our possession' instead of an individual life. We have been conditioned to believe that from newborn to a child you do not understand life or your surroundings before being taught by a more experienced/longer lived human being around you. Personally, I think this is absolute bull%@*^  and in fact... newborns are at the most, in touch with the spirit world, hypersensitive and able to see much more than we realise. I believe this because, they are unconditioned, haven't yet been taught anything by another human being and brainwashed into somebody else's ideology of life who hasn't even quite figured it out fully themselves, so it's almost like newborns are raw, organic, fresh, untouched, just a new soul and spirit being put into physical form. The only thing is, even with these powers… They are unable to make sense of it all at such an early stage in life… have you ever got older and remembered a dream or scenario from when you was a baby or a toddler? and your only able to make sense of it now you are an adult? Or you have what they call a 'De ja vu' where you feel like you experienced this same experience you are experiencing before? These are things that we experience and then are conditioned to believe that these things are not real, but not even our parents can sometimes make sense of these things for us… In another blog I will talk about my views on 'parallel lives' and 'spirit guides' and my experience on re-occurring dreams when I was a toddler and only comprehending it when I turned 30 years old. I also believe that all of us have been sent here for a purpose, and regardless of who gives birth to another human, that human carries their own soul and is their own 'person' with their own calling on earth. I therefore believe it is wrong for parents/carers to condition or even CHOOSE a path that THEY themselves desire for their child.  As women, we were created to recreate and bring life onto earth, however I do not feel like this means we CONTROL or RULE our children's lives. Due to many of us human beings being brainwashed to believe that we have this power… I feel like we tend to bring various types of trauma into their lives before understanding who they are and what their true purpose is here on earth and to support them in that aspect.

Now remember, all of us was once children and have often had to deal with this type of upbringing, so imagine what we pass on when we become parents ourselves and haven't done our shadow work? We then pass on the same type of teaching we grew up with, KNOWING we was unhappy with some of the things our parents did...

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